- Endometriose
- Vaginismus (Vaginalkrämpfe)
- Zysten (an den Eierstöcken)
- Entzündunge, auch Blasenentzündung
- unzureichende Feuchtigkeit bei der Penetration
- Infektionen (z.B. Pilzinfektion, andere Geschlechtskrankheiten)
- Allergie gegen chemische Verhütungsmethoden
- Gebärmuttermyom
- andere Tumore
- Narben durch OPs
- Neigung der Gebärmutter
- Gebärmuttersenkung
- Zyklus
- Die Vagina ist noch gar nicht bereit für eine Penetration
- Vorhautverengung
- Penisverkrümmung
- Infektionen (Pilz, andere Geschlechtskrankheiten)
- Entzündungen (Harnwege, Prostata)
- Kondomallergie, Allergie gegen chemische Verhütungsmethoden
- Prostatakrebs
Psychische Gründe sind mir keine bekannt. Penisträger*innen reagieren bei psychischen Gründen oft mit anderen Symptombildern.
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As far as I know, this is an issue that affects vulva wearers more than penis wearers.
Pain during sex can have different causes. When female clients mention this as a reason why they want less sex or no more sex at all, the first thing I ask is whether this pain has already been
physically diagnosed. Here are some physical causes:
- Endometriosis
- Vaginismus (vaginal cramps)
- Cysts (on the ovaries)
- Inflammation, including cystitis
- Insufficient moisture during penetration
- Infections (e.g. fungal infection, other sexually transmitted diseases)
- Allergy to chemical contraceptive methods
- uterine myoma
- other tumors
- Scars from surgery
- Inclination of the uterus
- uterine prolapse
- menstrual cycle
- The vagina is not yet ready for penetration
If there is no physical cause, you can check whether the reason is psychological. Psychological causes are also very diverse and in some cases the psyche can also cause the physical symptom (e.g.
constant fungal infections). Quite simply, it could also be that you are not yet ready for a P=netration. I'll write more about this tomorrow.
If the pain during sex occurs "suddenly" and there is no physical reason, you can look at what happened during the period when the pain occurred. Has it been very stressful professionally and/or
privately? Have you had a conflict with your favorite person that you haven't really resolved? Perhaps you find sex boring and instead of addressing this, your body is reacting for you.
If your body reacts for you, it may well mean that your subconscious takes over and says: "Nope, I don't begrudge you that. ... You don't deserve that ... I don't want that at all"
As you can see, pain during sex is not only very unpleasant but also has a variety of causes. We've all experienced it. If you experience pain during sex, have it checked out physically. If
nothing is found after a thorough examination, seek professional help if you are suffering. Or you may find that you don't feel like having S+x at all. For whatever reason. That would also be
completely ok.
For the sake of completeness, I'll list some physical reasons why penis wearers might experience pain:
- Foreskin constriction
- Curvature of the penis
- Infections (fungus, other sexually transmitted diseases)
- Inflammation (urinary tract, prostate)
- Condom allergy, allergy to chemical contraceptive methods
- Prostate cancer
I am not aware of any psychological reasons. Penis wearers often react to psychological reasons with other symptoms.
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