My focus on sexual and relationship therapy:

There is hardly a complex of topics that can influence us so much. We often identify with roles, values and ideas that we have been taught. These identifications often make us vulnerable, especially when they are suddenly unravelled and questioned. Therefore, sexual and relational dynamics sometimes present us with great challenges when it comes to breaking free from old patterns and venturing into new ways. In my sexual and relationship therapy settings, I offer you the opportunity to venture on your path in a protected setting.

  • Questions of sexual identity: You are not (any longer) sure about your sexual identity and want to find out more about your patterns?
  • sexual self-definition, being able to recognise your own needs and communicate (again)
    • unfulfilled sexuality and frustration
    • personal growth within a relationship / empowerment
  • Fears, anxieties, shame
    • Attachment anxiety, feelings of dependency
    • Fear of loss
    • Jealousy
    • repressed aggressions
  • Divorcement: You want to end a relationship but are not sure about it. You have already separated or been abandoned and want to reflect your experiences.
  • Fetish, Fantasies: You have certain fantasies, tend towards certain sexual practices or have a tendency towards objects and would like to clarify whether this is "normal". You have met someone with a kink and are not sure how to deal with it? As a KAP (kink aware professional) I´m familiar with the kinky world.
  • sexual disfunction and their challenges (e.g. orgasm- pleasure-, arousal disorders)
  • (lack of) sexual passion
  • Questioning the structure of the realtionsship
    • From monogamous to an open relationship
    • Polyamorous strucktures
    • relationship anrachy

If you still have questions or do not find yourself in the topics listed here and would still like to make use of therapy, simply contact me.


My therapeutical approach

There are times when everyone finds themselves in a stressful situation. But everyone deals with this situation differently, as we are all the sum of our experiences. Therefore, you as a person with your concerns are at the centre of my therapeutic work, which is chartacterized humanistic. That means that we´ll find out together what could help you.

I do not work strictly according to a certain approach or a certain school.


During the process, I draw on various (therapeutic) approaches depending on the context. This can be informative or counseling. If it makes sense, we work with ego states (inner parts) and use elements from psychodrama in which, for example, the different parts can have their say in a scenic way. Where words are lacking, physical or artistic-creative-therapeutic aspects can help. We will use what you need to continue on your personal path, even if it is not always easy.


What else is to say...

I can't tell you exactly how many sessions we need. Maybe after the initial setting you realise that you have been able to work on your issue, maybe you need more. Maybe you want to work intensively on your issue and would like regular appointments at relatively short intervals, or a few appointments are enough to support you. Everything has its own time and its own pace.

 

Change does not usually happen within our sessions. It happens where you process, accept and incorporate what you have experienced. In other words, in your everyday life. Between our appointments. It is therefore advisable to allow one or two weeks to pass between therapies so that you have time and space to digest what you have experienced.

 


Online-Setting

You would like to take advantage of a consultation, but you can´t participate in person? Then this medium might be the right one for you.

I use redemedical or google-meets as tool. You will receive a link with an access code from me at the time of the appointment and can participate in the video call from any device. The only requirement is a browser. Thus, you do not need to install any additional apps or software. By using redmedical or google-meets, you agree to the terms of use of the provider, for which I bear no liability.


per telephone-call

You would like to have a personal conversation, but remain anonymous as far as possible? Then the telephone call is an option.


Duration and price

individual setting online, per phone or in person

 

 

initial setting*

60 Min - 90 Min           70 € - 100€

 

regulare rate*

60 Min.          90 €

90 Min.        120 €

Flexible within the session


Social scale

 

initial setting*

60 Min - 90 Min           70 € - 100€

 

regulare rate*

60 Min.                          70€ -    90 €

90 Min.                          95€ - 120 €

Flexible within the session

Couplesetting (with a 2nd therapist) online, per phone or in person

 

initial setting

60 Min - 90 Min           90 € - 120€

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with 2nd therapist

90 Min                         160 €

 

regulare rate*

60 Min                        150 €

90 Min                        170 €

Flexible within the session

---

with 2nd therapist

90 Min                         245 €

 


Social scale

 

initial setting

60 Min - 90 Min           90 € - 120€

---

with 2nd therapist

90 Min                         160 €

 

regulare rate

60 Min                        100 € - 150 €

90 Min                        120 € - 170 €

Flexible within the session

---

with 2nd therapist

90 Min                         190 € - 245 €

 


Groupsettings only takes place with a 2nd therapist

Group setting here means relationship structures outside of monogamy, e.g. polycules, triangles....

Here the sessions always take place with a 2nd therapist to be able to respond well to the different dynamics.

 

**for every furhter person 50€ will be charged on the basic price.

intial setting* with up to 4 persons** online or in person:  

 

regulare rate* with up to 4 persons** online or in person:


Sliding scale for regulare settings with up to 4 persons**

 

90 Min         280 €

 

 

90 Min         345 €

 


90 Min         299€ - 345 €



*Settings on the weekend or after 7pm will be charged with 20€ more on the basic price.

 

In general, my sessions are not covered by public health insurance. Only in exceptional cases, if you do not get a place with a registered therapist, it is possible that the health insurance company will cover your individual sessions. Please contact your health insurance provider for more information.

 

Individual sexualtherapeutical sessions can partly be billed by private health insurances, please have a look at their conditions. Relationsshiptherapy is not covered by any health insurance.

 

For persons with a low income or financial difficult situtaions;

do not be afraid to contact me, if you need to pay in installments.